Tonight, like every night but maybe just a little more, I ask you to open your eyes and listen closely to what’s happening outside.
Teenagers who are just looking for reasons to party went out today to celebrate the transition to a new calendar year.
Some of them crossed the threshold from childhood into early adolescence while the pandemic was at its peak, so they didn’t get to experience many social situations, self-organized parties, or meetings with peers of the opposite sex.
They are very (very!) thirsty for connection, eager to be grown-up and cool, but it’s not certain they know how to behave in a way that also considers their own safety and the safety of those around them.
That’s why our role as adults—even if we don’t have kids in that age group—is extremely important; sometimes it can even be crucial and life-changing.
If you notice unusual activity, loud noises, or large gatherings around you—be attentive and report to local authorities if needed, especially if you’re unsure whether what’s happening is safe for everyone involved.
Don’t stand by; if you find yourself in a place where behavior is inappropriate, excessive, risky, or even unpleasant for someone (sometimes just one look is enough to understand)—stop and intervene.
Often, a simple comment is enough to prevent an escalation that could end in disaster.
Approach those who look vulnerable or hurt and offer help, respecting their wishes.
If you’re a parent of teens—make sure they spend the evening in a safe and accessible place where they can reach you, and encourage them to contact you if something goes wrong or if they feel uncomfortable for any reason.
Above all—help them release the pressure of this day:
Despite the drama, the countdown, and the desire to be part of the ritual—it’s absolutely not necessary to kiss tonight or rush to do anything else, especially not with just anyone. There’s no deadline to meet, and the 2021 goals that weren’t reached can wait for next year.
Instead of rushing—feel free to be a little disappointed together.
You might be surprised how much teens view days like this as solid anchors in their lives.
If you haven’t talked about this yet, it’s not too late to start today.
Wishing us all safe and healthy days ahead—more than in recent years, just like that, without summaries, drama, or too much formality.
